When your submissive says ‘no’

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Dec update: New guide available now: How To Handle Disobedience A blog post by Die Starke Frau prompted me to write this response because I see in her writing a struggle that a lot of new Dommes have: What do you do when your submissive disobeys? She said: One thing that definitely throws me off balance is when the man is refusing to submit. When I develop an idea of what to do with him and how to fuck with his mind, and if then, out of the blue, the man does not obey. Note: I am not talking about playful disobedience here. I am talking about a serious refusal.

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